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Happy Quanahanamas!!!

As Hanukah rolls around and so does Christmas and Quanza, I just want to tell ya'll to have an awesome fabulous time and remember what is really important.  Today there are so many mentions of "buy this and you will feel amazing," "your kid will love you," "you will get promoted," "you will become 20% happier." Once you have fallen into these traps you spend more time buying the thing that will make something happen rather than doing that thing yourself. Some people believe that if you give a lover a ring that they will become close and fall deeper in love with that person. Sure, that is a really caring thing to do but it is the thought that counts. If you want to get closer to a loved one then spend time with them and if you see something they'd appreciate at a store then by golly if you want, get it for them. Shopping isn't evil. It can be great to look at all of the new inventions people make or support an artist in Thailand with their earring business. But don’t rely on that item to make your relationship. It is all about priorities. If you really want to get close to someone the best thing you can do is spend time with them. Ask them questions. Listen. Don't buy a ring to get close, get close to get close. We don't have to jump through all of these materialistic hoops to get to what we want. No, we just have to do our best and know that whatever happens was meant to be.  The holidays can be spent laughing and listening and sharing with your family. And that is what I think they are all about. 
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I have included some pictures of what the holidays mean to me. 



 Playing War in the car with my sister (double war!!)
 Listening to stories from wise people

 My grandma's song she sings!
 World peace



Dyeing my hair 
 Shopping around a tad perhaps.
 Admiring plants

Playing with my pup

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