Everyone perceives beauty very different from each other. Some may see beauty as blond hair, blue eyes, and a great body. Some may see beauty as bikini clad girls, some may see beauty as a man who is sweaty with a six pack. Sounds familiar? I am describing magazines and popular media.
The media tells us that beauty is flawless and perfect. It tells us standards to ascribe to that are practically impossible to obtain. Look at this video of a woman being photoshopped to look "perfect"
When you google beauty, this is what comes up:
Unattainable images of flawless skin and perfection. Why does our society strive for something so fake? As human beings we are bound to have some scars and some scratches and chubby parts. That is how we function.
In our culture beauty may be perceived as an unrealistic image of a perfect person, but in reality beauty can exist in the way someone shares a heartfelt story, opens themselves to be vulnerable, or how they smile. Every single person including you (yes, you) has a smile so unique and when it is shared with the world, it is beautiful. So smile gosh darn it. But know it is ok not to as well.
Sometimes I hear people say "that's attractive" in a joking manner, and I have as well. I think that I need to change my language because it is portraying that a face with cake all over, or a runny nose, or an interest in reading is not attractive. Because to some people, it probably is. Being you is awesome!
To wrap this up, just be you, know that everyone has flaws, and smile :)
Have a great day gorgeous people.
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